tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85860394201814582732024-03-05T17:26:04.340-05:00Larry B. Gray's Thoughts On Life, Business & Florida Real EstateLarry B. Grayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04891023045117835261noreply@blogger.comBlogger106125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8586039420181458273.post-18039888467938339772014-08-13T12:07:00.000-04:002014-08-13T12:07:48.956-04:00Leaders Must Lead: The Three "F's" of Leadership <br />
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<br /> There comes a point in every relationship, organization, business, and related activity when leaders must lead. The various teams have done their designing. The committees have reviewed it. Management has approved it. Now, it is time for leaders to take control and execute it. This is true whether we are talking about building a rocket ship or selling a house; once plans are made they have to be executed.<br /><br /> Leaders are the people that make it happen. They execute the plans and insure the goals are met. Whether they are leaders of a large group of fellow associates or they are an individual performance leader, such as sales leader, they set the pace and standards of the job to be done. <br /><br /> Leaders accomplish this through other people. A team leader will guide and direct his team insuring all the members maintain their focus on achieving the desired results. A sales leader will work with all parties of a transaction to insure they stay focused on making the transaction. The primary function of leadership in any situation involves working with and through other people to achieve the results of the goal.<br /><br /> Working with and through other people can be challenging but that is why you are the leader. As a leader it is important to learn and apply the three F’s of leadership in all their work relationships and interactions with other people. A leader should treat everyone with respect by being:<br /><br /> 1. Fair<br /><br /> 2. Firm<br /><br /> 3. Frank<br /><br /><strong>Fair</strong><br /><br /> Your reputation is one of the most important assets you have. How people perceive you will determine how willing they are to work with you. As a team leader a positive reputation will make your associates put out the extra effort needed to accomplish any goal. As a sales leader your reputation will bring business and clients to you.<br /><br /> Being fair is simply treating all people the same. If people know they can trust you they will want to work with you. Be honest with all parties and work for a win-win solution to any problems that arise.<br /><br /> Make time for all your associates and business partners. This will go a long way to helping you achieve the reputation of being fair. Showing favoritism in any business relationship can have strong negative consequences.<br /><br /> Even in businesses where professional and corporate guidelines/rules appear to restrict your relationship with one party or the other in a business transaction you can still be fair in your actions. Be honest. If you cannot do something tell the party you cannot. By following the guidelines to the letter you are maintaining your fairness in the business relationship. Simply applying the rules equally to all parties with fairness and honesty helps you achieve your goals.<br /><br /><strong>Firm</strong><br /><br /> In the old days when you said a leader was firm you meant he ruled with an iron fist. There are still times when a leader has to be strict but being firm means more than this. It means being a decisive leader, one who can make a decision and follow through with it.<br /><br /> When being firm you need to stick to your principles and company policies/rules in all your business relationships. Don’t be indecisive when it comes to doing what is right or wrong. Let your principles and policies guide you in your decisions and how you implement actions. <br /><br /> When you make a decision stick with it, don’t be wishy-washy about it. You are not a “yes person” but you are the leader and at times it is your job to make the hard choices that are necessary to accomplish the goal. <br /><br /> Being firm also means when your decision or plans need to be changed you change them. But, you base the need to change on the facts needed to reach your goal. A good leader knows when and how to be flexible and adaptable.<br /><br /> Be open the suggestion, ideas, guidance and advice. A good leader does not make decisions in a vacuum but in the end a good leader makes the decision. <br /><br /><strong>Frank</strong><br /><br /> A good leader is an honest leader. His very principles demand truthfulness and honesty. He shares all the facts that he can with his team and/or clients to help them accomplish the goal. <br /><br /> When working in a team environment a good leader deals with all situations with truthfulness whether with the team or an individual. If praise is justified he gives it honestly and freely. If correction is needed he handles it with the same frankness, dealing with facts.<br /><br /> An individual leader such as a sales leader is frank with his associates and clients. He gives them all the facts, both good and bad, so they can make the best decision for their goals. <br /><br /> By following the three “F’s” of leadership a good leader will find the interaction with fellow associates and clients easier and more rewarding. Developing a reputation of being fair, firm and frank in your business relationships will help move you from being a good leader to being a great leader.</div>
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When I think about the advice I have received from my various mentors one of the earliest was from a first line supervisor at Kraft Foods back in 1972. This is one of those words of advice that I still follow today. His name was Dick and he would tell me every chance he got:<br />
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I used to laugh at him and continue doing my job, not paying much attention to him. Over time I began to realize what a golden nugget those words of advice were. I have tried to apply them to every company I have worked for and every position I have held in those companies. No matter how what your job is, applying these words of advice will make your job easier and your chances of success will improved.<br />
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I apply this rule in both directions of the hierarchical chain of command by equally trying to make my boss look good to his boss and making the employees who work for me look good. By applying the rule in both directions I am the one who ultimately looks good.<br />
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There are many benefits to be earned by making your boss look good. The most obvious is if your boss looks good to his superiors then he is more likely to get promoted out of your way and you can take his job. Another benefit of this approach is that your boss’s boss may notice your hard work and realize you are carrying the operation and again promote you in recognition of your effort. I have successfully used both of these tactics to gain a promotion on several occasions. <br />
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When applying the rule in the other direction to those who report to you and making your direct reports look good there is nothing but positives to be gained. One of the first positive results are that you develop a sense of trust and respect among your employees. Having the trust and respect of your employees is an extremely important aspect of achieving success. I have seen good managers fail by not earning the respect and support of their employees. They can make your life miserable and sabotage all your efforts if they do not feel you support them. <br />
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There are many ways to make your employees look good and they are easy to apply. One of the best is to offer training in all aspects of the job and helping prepare them for the next position or level by sharing your knowledge and expertise. Encourage them to share their ideas and motivate them to learn all they can about the operations. Most importantly give your employees the recognition they have earned for their efforts and share it with their fellow workers and to your superiors. Not only do you win the support of the employee being recognized but of all the other members of the team.<br />
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Once you make your employees look good your superiors will notice and therefore you look good in their eyes. You will develop a reputation among your superiors as a good trainer and leader. Your employees will work hard to ensure you meet your goals when they know you are supporting them. One of my greatest achievements that I look back on, is the employees that I have helped encourage, train and develop for promotion. <br />
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In both of the situations described I have helped create a positive leadership environment for the entire team. By making your boss look good, you look good which makes for a win-win situation. By making your employees look good, they will work to make you look good and once again you have created a win-win situation. This is a sign of true leadership; when all parties can achieve their goals and meet the companies goals together.<br />
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Even as I write this advice I am following the words of my mentor because my goal as a leader is to “make you look good.”Larry B. Grayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04891023045117835261noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8586039420181458273.post-90208851927517751252014-02-20T10:56:00.000-05:002014-02-20T10:56:03.870-05:00CYA - The Basic Rule of Leadership<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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While attending Florida Southern College I took a night class entitled “Industrial Psychology.” The teacher was a retired Vice President of Human Resources for a major international heavy equipment manufacturer. The first day of class he walked into the room, went to the blackboard and wrote in large letters “CYA”. He then told us if we did not learn anything else in his class we would learn what CYA meant.<o:p></o:p><br />
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He went on to explain that in the real world of business this is one of the most important and basic rules to success and survival. Whether you find yourself in a positive or negative position, using CYA gives you an advantage over your competition. In all areas of business you needed to CYA or Cover Your Ass. <o:p></o:p><br />
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Documentation is simply “put it in writing.” Whether it involves communication or an event, write down what was said and/or what happened. Too often not remembering exactly what happened or what was said results in a totally different outcome than what you expected.<o:p></o:p><br />
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To help avoid misunderstanding take notes during the conversation or as soon as possible after the conversation write down what was said. I have always carried a little note pad in my pocket to jot down memory notes to be used later to help retain or recap the conversation. Often when I get a few minutes I will send a note by email to the other party summarizing the conversation. This will also serve a record that we had the conversation.<o:p></o:p><br />
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One of the phrases I hate to hear from one of my managers is, “I assumed ….” I was taught very early in my business career the old adage that when you assume, you make an “ass-u-me” and I get very upset when it happens to me. This can easily be avoided by learning to follow-up on events you are involved with.<o:p></o:p><br />
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If you make an assignment don’t assume it will be done, follow-up.<o:p></o:p><br />
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If you have assignments don’t assume you have done it correctly, follow-up.<o:p></o:p><br />
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If you are involved in communication with another person don’t assume there is an understanding of what was said, follow-up.<o:p></o:p><br />
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If you write it, proofread it, another form of follow-up. Years ago I asked my assistant to type a letter to the Vice President of Operations of the company I worked for telling him of the production record that was broken the previous night by our second shift team. She typed it up and brought in for me to sign and I did. <o:p></o:p><br />
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It may sound like you are being paranoid by keeping all of these notes and constantly checking up on people, but it is not. It is a valuable tool to help make you a better leader and manager. It will help you evaluate your past performance and help you make plans for future improvements. By applying CYA in all areas of your work you will reap the benefits.<o:p></o:p><br />
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Naked Eyes by Larry B. Gray is a true time capsule of 1970. This
collection of poems shows a young Larry B. Gray pondering everything most
intelligent young men do as they cross from adolescence to adulthood. Love,
hate, war and death all come into play. I personally found myself again and
again identifying with the words of the young Larry B. Gray and wished I had
written many of them. Kept in the time frame of the turbulent late 60's and
early 70's and it is to see these timeless poems as the treasure they are. In
closing I could have included many of the passages to illustrate my point here
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survive. Larry Gray kept his and has now published them, and they make an
intriguing record of a young man of that era, his likes and doubts and dreams
and fears. Some have an air of mystery, such as the intriguing "The Mystic
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was a time of change in our world. The belief that everything was perfect was
coming to an end. America was bogged down in an unpopular war in Vietnam which
for the first time was broadcast nightly into everyone’s living room via TV.
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<strong><span style="color: #040404; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia;">All I really need to know I learned in kindergarten.<br /> ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW about how to live and what to do <br /> and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not <br /> at the top of the graduate-school mountain, but there in the <br /> sandpile at Sunday School. These are the things I learned:</span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="color: #040404; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><br /> Share everything. <br /><br /> Play fair. <br /><br /> Don't hit people. <br /><br /> Put things back where you found them. <br /><br /> Clean up your own mess. <br /><br /> Don't take things that aren't yours. <br /><br /> Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody. <br /><br /> Wash your hands before you eat. <br /><br /> Flush. <br /><br /> Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you. <br /><br /> Live a balanced life - learn some and think some<br /> and draw and paint and sing and dance and play <br /> and work every day some. <br /><br /> Take a nap every afternoon. <br /><br /> When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, <br /> hold hands, and stick together. <br /><br /> Be aware of wonder.<br /> Remember the little seed in the styrofoam cup: <br /> The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody <br /> really knows how or why, but we are all like that. <br /><br /> Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even <br /> the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. <br /> So do we. <br /><br /> And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books <br /> and the first word you learned - the biggest<br /> word of all - LOOK. <br /><br /><br /><br /> Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. <br /> The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation.<br /> Ecology and politics and equality and sane living. <br /><br /> Take any of those items and extrapolate it into <br /> sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your <br /> family life or your work or your government or<br /> your world and it holds true and clear and firm. <br /> Think what a better world it would be if <br /> all - the whole world - had cookies and milk about <br /> three o'clock every afternoon and then lay down with<br /> our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments <br /> had a basic policy to always put thing back where <br /> they found them and to clean up their own mess. <br /><br /> And it is still true, no matter how old you<br /> are - when you go out into the world, it is best <br /> to hold hands and stick together.</span></span></strong></div>
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Walking Daisy (a pug) and Duke (a golden retriever) this
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>"To the birds. And that squirrel over there."</strong></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>From The Tao of Pooh</strong></span></div>
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Throughout my career I have had lots of people give me words of advice on how to enhance my career and how to be a better manager. Some of it has gone in one ear and out the other but a lot of the advice has been beneficial and helped my career and management development. Here is one of those great words of wisdom that has stuck with me over the years.<br />
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“There is no such thing as a bad employee, only bad supervisors!”<br />
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In the 1970’s I was working for Kraft Foods and starting my career in management as a first line supervisor. The plant manager for that facility, Tony, was one of my mentors that I still find myself quoting all the time. This was one of his favorite Tonyism’s, my term for his sayings, that he would tell the supervisors every time they brought up an employee issue.<br />
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I remember getting so mad when he said this to me because I had come to him looking for a solution, not to hear how bad of a supervisor I was. Fortunately he was very understanding and would sit and talk me through the issue. I soon came to realize this was his whole point in making the statement, to get me to think and work through the issue.<br />
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Over the years I began to understand the deep meaning of the statement and began applying it to my management skill set. There are two broad lessons that can be learned from this statement.<br />
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The first is that new employees do not come to work on their first day with the preconceived notion that “I am here to goof-off and cause trouble.” They come to work with high hopes and optimism of doing a fair days work for a fair days wage. They are taught, on the job, how to be a bad employee. No, this is not part of their orientation or part of the supervisor’s training program, but it is there. They learn it from the attitude of other employees and the general work ethic of the facility. <br />
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How does this apply to management? When management allows a negative environment to foster in a work place then they are responsible for the outcome, thus it is not due to bad employees but to bad supervision. Address issues and do not let them grow and take root in your organization and you will find you have fewer “bad employees.”<br />
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The second lesson to be learned, from this Tonyism, is associated with the first and that is to take action. If an employee starts to have performance issues it is up to the supervisor to address the issue with the employee and not let it continue to grow worse. Most performance issues have a root-cause that may or may not be associated with the job. By addressing the issue early and helping the employee see the problems that are occurring; you may be able to uncover the root-cause and to turn the performance issue around with minimal intervention. One thing I have learned over the years is ignoring issues will not cause them to go away.<br />
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Our job as managers is to develop employees and help them achieve their work related goals. By working with our employees we can develop a positive and productive work relationship that will be beneficial to both the employee and the organization. Also, remember it is hard to achieve your goals without the willing and positive support of your staff; they can make or break you.<br />
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IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.</div>
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<b>The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of
America,</b></div>
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When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to
dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to
assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which
the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the
opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel
them to the separation.<br />
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We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that
they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among
these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these
rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from
the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes
destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish
it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles
and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to
effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that
Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient
causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more
disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by
abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of
abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to
reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to
throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future
security.--Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is
now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of
Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of
repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment
of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted
to a candid world.<br />
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He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the
public good.<br />He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and
pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should
be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to
them.<br />He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large
districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of
Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to
tyrants only. <br />He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual,
uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the
sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures. <br />He has
dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his
invasions on the rights of the people.<br />He has refused for a long time, after
such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative
powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for
their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers
of invasion from without, and convulsions within.<br />He has endeavoured to
prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws
for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their
migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of
Lands.<br />He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his
Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.<br />He has made Judges
dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and
payment of their salaries.<br />He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and
sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their
substance.<br />He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without
the Consent of our legislatures.<br />He has affected to render the Military
independent of and superior to the Civil power.<br />He has combined with others
to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged
by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:<br />For
Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:<br />For protecting them, by a
mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the
Inhabitants of these States:<br />For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the
world:<br />For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent: <br />For depriving us in
many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:<br />For transporting us beyond Seas
to be tried for pretended offences<br />For abolishing the free System of English
Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government,
and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit
instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:<br />For
taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering
fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:<br />For suspending our own
Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us
in all cases whatsoever.<br />He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us
out of his Protection and waging War against us.<br />He has plundered our seas,
ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
<br />He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to
compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with
circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous
ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.<br />He has constrained
our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their
Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall
themselves by their Hands. <br />He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us,
and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless
Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction
of all ages, sexes and conditions.</blockquote>
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In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the
most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated
injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a
Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.<br />
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Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have
warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an
unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances
of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice
and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to
disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and
correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of
consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces
our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War,
in Peace Friends.<br />
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We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in
General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the
rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good
People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United
Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they
are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political
connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be
totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power
to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do
all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the
support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine
Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our
sacred Honor.<br />
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<span class="heading">Column 1</span><br /><b>Georgia:</b><br /> Button
Gwinnett<br /> Lyman Hall<br /> George Walton<br />
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<span class="heading">Column 2</span><br /><b>North Carolina:</b><br /> William
Hooper<br /> Joseph Hewes<br /> John Penn<br /><b>South Carolina:</b><br /> Edward
Rutledge<br /> Thomas Heyward, Jr.<br /> Thomas Lynch, Jr.<br /> Arthur
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<span class="heading">Column 3</span><br /><b>Massachusetts:</b><br />John
Hancock<br /><b>Maryland:</b><br />Samuel Chase<br />William Paca<br />Thomas
Stone<br />Charles Carroll of Carrollton<br /><b>Virginia:</b><br />George
Wythe<br />Richard Henry Lee<br />Thomas Jefferson<br />Benjamin Harrison<br />Thomas
Nelson, Jr.<br />Francis Lightfoot Lee<br />Carter Braxton<br />
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<span class="heading">Column 4</span><br /><b>Pennsylvania:</b><br /> Robert
Morris<br /> Benjamin Rush<br /> Benjamin Franklin<br /> John
Morton<br /> George Clymer<br /> James Smith<br /> George Taylor<br /> James
Wilson<br /> George Ross<br /><b>Delaware:</b><br /> Caesar Rodney<br /> George
Read<br /> Thomas McKean<br />
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<span class="heading">Column 5</span><br /><b>New York:</b><br /> William
Floyd<br /> Philip Livingston<br /> Francis Lewis<br /> Lewis Morris<br /><b>New
Jersey:</b><br /> Richard Stockton<br /> John Witherspoon<br /> Francis
Hopkinson<br /> John Hart<br /> Abraham Clark<br />
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<span class="heading">Column 6</span><br /><b>New Hampshire:</b><br /> Josiah
Bartlett<br /> William Whipple<br /><b>Massachusetts:</b><br /> Samuel
Adams<br /> John Adams<br /> Robert Treat Paine<br /> Elbridge Gerry<br /><b>Rhode
Island:</b><br /> Stephen Hopkins<br /> William
Ellery<br /><b>Connecticut:</b><br /> Roger Sherman<br /> Samuel
Huntington<br /> William Williams<br /> Oliver Wolcott<br /><b>New
Hampshire:</b><br /> Matthew Thornton<br />
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Have you ever watched business people get out of their cars at their local grocery store and quickly remove their name badge? Or, have you gone to lunch with other sales people in your group and had them remove their badge before going into the restaurant? This never ceases to amaze me. Are they embarassed by who they are and what they do?<br />
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Name badges are one of the best and least expensive means of self-branding and advertising available. Not only does it open the door for conversations and questions about your product and/or services, but it also serves to reinforce your name. For a few well spent dollars your name badge is publicly announcing who you are and what you do wherever you go.<br />
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From my experience, in the past, as an automotive sales person and my present involvement in the real estate industry I can honestly state that a name badge can and will generate contacts and business for you. On numerous occasions I have had people come up to me and say, “You’re a real estate agent. Can you answer a question for me?” This simple opening has directly led to real estate listings opportunities and potential buyers.<br />
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On another occasion, while having lunch at a local restaurant, a lady came up to me and said she noticed I worked at a local car dealership and she had a question to ask me. After answering the question I gave her my business card and asked her to come by and let me show her the model she liked. She showed up and I sold her the car.<br />
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Would this have happened if I was ashamed of my badge and removed it before I went into the restaurant. No, it was the badge that provided the opening for the entire business transaction. There is a saying in real estate among agents, “Don’t be a secret agent”. If you want other people’s business you have to let them know who you are and what you have to offer.<br />
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In order to succeed you have to go out and get the business. Self-promotion and advertising is one of the ways to do it. Your name badge is another tool which can make this happen.<br />
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To re-cap, here are a few facts about name badge use.<br />
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1. It will help a client remember your name and reinforce you as the expert.<br />
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2. It is a conversation starter.<br />
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3. It will bring you potential business and opportunities.<br />
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4. It is inexpensive advertising with a high return on your investment.<br />
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In order to maximize your success from wearing your name badge here are a few guidelines for name badge use.<br />
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1. Buy a quality badge. A cheap badge is just that, a cheap badge, and reflects on you.<br />
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2. Make sure it is easy to read.<br />
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3. If you shake hands with your right hand, wear your name badge on your right chest.<br />
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4. Make sure it is attached right side up and straight. Don’t laugh, it happens.<br />
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5. Use common sense when not to wear your badge.<br />
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6. Monogram clothing, shirts, jackets, sweater, and hats, are another way to get the effect in a more casual environment.<br />
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Your business is all about name recognition and branding. The more you get your name out in front of the public the more likely they are to think of you when a need arises in their lives for your services. Whether it is print advertisements, internet use, business cards or name badges, each serves to remind people who you are and what you have to offer. <br />
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Don’t keep your professional expertise a secret, flaunt it. Wear your name badge and let people know you are the expert in your profession and you’re there to help them. It works!<br />
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Make your public service announcement today by wearing your name badge.<br />
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There comes a point in every relationship, organization, business, and related activity when leaders must lead. The various teams have done their designing. The committees have reviewed it. Management has approved it. Now, it is time for leaders to take control and execute it. This is true whether we are talking about building a rocket ship or selling a house; once plans are made they have to be executed.<br />
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Leaders are the people that make it happen. They execute the plans and insure the goals are met. Whether they are leaders of a large group of fellow associates or they are an individual performance leader, such as sales leader, they set the pace and standards of the job to be done. <br />
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Leaders accomplish this through other people. A team leader will guide and direct his team insuring all the members maintain their focus on achieving the desired results. A sales leader will work with all parties of a transaction to insure they stay focused on making the transaction. The primary function of leadership in any situation involves working with and through other people to achieve the results of the goal.<br />
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Working with and through other people can be challenging but that is why you are the leader. As a leader it is important to learn and apply the three F’s of leadership in all their work relationships and interactions with other people. A leader should treat everyone with respect by being:<br />
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Your reputation is one of the most important assets you have. How people perceive you will determine how willing they are to work with you. As a team leader a positive reputation will make your associates put out the extra effort needed to accomplish any goal. As a sales leader your reputation will bring business and clients to you.<br />
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Being fair is simply treating all people the same. If people know they can trust you they will want to work with you. Be honest with all parties and work for a win-win solution to any problems that arise.<br />
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Make time for all your associates and business partners. This will go a long way to helping you achieve the reputation of being fair. Showing favoritism in any business relationship can have strong negative consequences.<br />
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Even in businesses where professional and corporate guidelines/rules appear to restrict your relationship with one party or the other in a business transaction you can still be fair in your actions. Be honest. If you cannot do something tell the party you cannot. By following the guidelines to the letter you are maintaining your fairness in the business relationship. Simply applying the rules equally to all parties with fairness and honesty helps you achieve your goals.<br />
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In the old days when you said a leader was firm you meant he ruled with an iron fist. There are still times when a leader has to be strict but being firm means more than this. It means being a decisive leader, one who can make a decision and follow through with it.<br />
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When being firm you need to stick to your principles and company policies/rules in all your business relationships. Don’t be indecisive when it comes to doing what is right or wrong. Let your principles and policies guide you in your decisions and how you implement actions. <br />
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When you make a decision stick with it, don’t be wishy-washy about it. You are not a “yes person” but you are the leader and at times it is your job to make the hard choices that are necessary to accomplish the goal. <br />
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Being firm also means when your decision or plans need to be changed you change them. But, you base the need to change on the facts needed to reach your goal. A good leader knows when and how to be flexible and adaptable.<br />
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Be open the suggestion, ideas, guidance and advice. A good leader does not make decisions in a vacuum but in the end a good leader makes the decision. <br />
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A good leader is an honest leader. His very principles demand truthfulness and honesty. He shares all the facts that he can with his team and/or clients to help them accomplish the goal. <br />
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When working in a team environment a good leader deals with all situations with truthfulness whether with the team or an individual. If praise is justified he gives it honestly and freely. If correction is needed he handles it with the same frankness, dealing with facts.<br />
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An individual leader such as a sales leader is frank with his associates and clients. He gives them all the facts, both good and bad, so they can make the best decision for their goals. <br />
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By following the three “F’s” of leadership a good leader will find the interaction with fellow associates and clients easier and more rewarding. Developing a reputation of being fair, firm and frank in your business relationships will help move you from being a good leader to being a great leader.<br />
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<strong><span style="font-size: large;">Join me today in welcoming Sarah Parr as our guest blogger for today.</span></strong><br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">By Sarah Parr<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Florida has
seen its share of hardships because of the housing crisis. Analysts say we’re
experiencing a slow recovery, but the aftermath of the housing crisis still
lingers, especially here. The Sunshine State recently witnessed a 3.11 percent increase
in foreclosure activity, according to RealtyTRAC’s year-end report. Lawmakers,
real estate professionals and consumer advocates want to change Florida’s
status and reform its foreclosure process.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Lawmakers are currently talking about </span></span><a href="http://www.heraldtribune.com/article/20130305/ARTICLE/130309763"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">implementing various measures</span></span></a><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">, and this has spurred debate between
people from all sides of the issue. The proposed laws could considerably alter
the way foreclosures are handled in Florida.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Curing Florida’s long judicial
process<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">House Bill
87 intends to speed up Florida’s long judicial-foreclosure process. Supporters claim
that the bill looks after borrowers by requiring banks and lenders to show they
own a mortgage before they can file any foreclosure action. If set into law,
the bill would also allow third-party lien holders, such as condo or homeowner
associations, to push foreclosures through a faster process rather than through
the customary court arrangement. House Bill 87 would give borrowers 20 days to
provide defense against the foreclosure action. After a final judgment in
foreclosure is reached, the bill would give banks and lenders one year instead
of the present five years to go after borrowers for losses from a foreclosure. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">House Bill
87 <span style="display: none; mso-hide: all;">The legislation </span>has created
the most discussion out of all the proposed legislation, as </span></span><a href="http://www.floridaforeclosurelitigator.com/"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">Pine Hills foreclosure attorneys</span></span></a><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> might tell you. Opponents of the
bill claim it would rather pump out foreclosures as quickly as possible, instead
of protecting the rights of homeowners. They also claim that 20 days is not
enough time for homeowners to seek out attorneys for foreclosure defense or to provide
their own reasonable defenses. On the other hand, supporters assert the foreclosure
process is long-drawn-out, producing gloom for everyone involved. Proponents
say accelerating the foreclosure process would also be favorable for Florida
real estate’s future success, as homes in foreclosure limbo can be eyesores
that bring surrounding property values down. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Pushing through case backlog<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Under Senate
Bill 1666, senior justices or judges would be able to consent to temporary duty
to help with the buildup of foreclosure cases in Florida. The bill would also
allow second publication of the notice of sale of a home to be published online
in lieu of publication in any other form of media.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This changes the requirement that a second
notice of pending foreclosure must occur in a print media advertisement, a move
some say is unfair to low-income homeowners and seniors who could only find out
about a looming foreclosure sale through a newspaper notice.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Protection for homeowners in distress<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Four bills,
proposed and sponsored by Senator Darren Soto (D-Orlando), seek to aid
homeowners struggling with foreclosure or mortgage issues. Senate Bills 1226
and 371 would mandate that lenders can only file a deficiency judgment one year
after a final foreclosure judgment, and would only have two years to collect
any outstanding debt. Right now, residents can be contacted by debt collectors
for up to two decades. Senate Bill 1236, also known as the “Mortgage Principal
Reduction Act,” would require the Florida Housing Finance Corporation to utilize
$100 million of the federal government’s Hardest-Hit Program to start a
mortgage principal reduction program for Floridians with properties in
foreclosure. The final proposed bill by Soto, the “Short Sale Debt Relief Act,”
would make deficiency judgments unenforceable on a short sale if the original
debt was 20 percent or greater than fair market value.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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of the proposals presented, Florida will probably see significant changes in
its foreclosure process soon. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Another snippet from "A Boy From Down East"<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">What in the
world could these three activities have in common?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As I settled into the routine of dorm life at
the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill these became part of the
unofficial schedule of events and entertainment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Each of these events shared a common
connector which helped build friendships and enlightened my college experience.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">There were five
of us who lived next door to each other on the first floor of Graham Dorm.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Since we did not partake of the “evil weed,”
alcohol became the libation of choice.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Beer was our favorite but because we were each too poor to buy it on a
regular basis, it was reserved for special occasions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our fallback drink became wine, Boones Farm
Strawberry Hill to be specific.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Occasionally someone bought a bottle of Apple and we all scolded him for
not paying attention.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Every Friday
night was poker night for any of us who were staying on campus for the
weekend.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We met in one of our rooms and
set up a card table and played well into the night.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Since we were all card sharks and big time
wheeler dealers we had to set a bet limit to 1¢.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If we didn’t, the game would be over after a
couple of hands.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">One of the rules
of play was the bottle rule.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We played
until someone won enough hands to be $1.oo ahead.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At this point we took a break from cards and
walked up to the little convenience store located on Franklin Street to buy a
bottle of Boones Farm for 99¢.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We
returned to the game and played until the next dollar was won.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">This usually
continued until one of three things occurred. First, everyone ran out of money.
Since we were college students we had very little money and we were smart
enough not to bring all we had to the table. This typically occurred around
1:00 AM.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">The second
game-ending occurrence was the closing of the little store.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This normally occurred at 1:00 AM.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Allowing for an additional hour to finish off
that last bottle of Strawberry Hill we wrapped up the game by 2:00 AM.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">The third reason
to stop the game rarely occurred but it took a devastating toll on any plans
you had for Saturday.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It occurred when
the games were played too fast and $1.00 winners happened too often.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This lead to a condition where no one was
able to walk to the little store and no one else cared.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Ah, Friday night
poker was fun.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Another periodic
occurrence that happened several times each semester was the infamous “panty
raid.” Usually between 9:30 PM and 10:30 PM a loud clatter of noise arose out
on the quad. Guys from the other male dorms on the north campus crossed our
quad of 5 male dorms yelling that immortal call to arms, “Panty Raid,” as they
marched to Cobb Hall which was an all-female dorm in 1972. By the time they
reached Cobb there would be close to 1,000 people in the group.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Whether it was
Cobb Hall or one of the other female dorms of the north campus the event played
out same. Forget any preconceived ideas or anything you might have seen in a
movie about panty raids. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">As the crowd
began to arrive at the girl’s dorm several campus police vehicles would drive
up and park across the street.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Usually
three of the largest policemen walked over and one stood in front of each
door.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The one at the main entrance would
knock on the door and tell the house mother to lock all the doors and first
floor windows.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The rest of the police
sat on their vehicles and watched the show.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">The crowd of
guys gathered across the front of the building and began chanting “Panties,
Panties.” I know it sounds corny, but no one said guys were smart when animal
instincts took over.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The girls gathered
at the windows of the upper floors looking out and laughing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Every so often one would throw a pair of
panties out the window and the crowd went crazy. It was like a shark feeding
frenzy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Looking back I realize this
stage of the event was similar to chumming the water when you go fishing.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">After the crowd
was worked up by the occasional panty, the girls moved to the next and most
exciting part of the show.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A girl would
lean out of the window and dangle a pair of panties teasing the crowd and
getting everyone to bunch up in a tight group.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>When the timing was just right the girl with the panties suddenly pulled
back into the window very quickly.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Before the group below her window could react, four arms came out with a
trashcan full of cold water which was dumped onto the group of guys standing
directly below.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">This process was
repeated several times until the crowd got bored and quietly dispersed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
All you could hear as we were leaving was the cat calls and laughing from the
dorm and the laughing from the campus police.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">As for me and my
friends, we only had to see the bait and switch occur once. We were smart
enough to stay in the back and avoid the soaking which was sure to come.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We stood there and laughed while we shared
our bottle of Strawberry Hill, which one of us always had stashed.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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activity was the anti-war marches of that time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>In 1972 the Vietnam War was still going on and the anti-war sentiment
was very strong on college campuses across the country. UNC was no
exception.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>By the spring of 1972 the
lottery for the draft had occurred and with my draft number I knew I did not
have to worry.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In many ways I was very
apathetic about the war and to be honest viewed the opportunity to march as another
fun thing to do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And, as I look back
most in the crowd felt the same way.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">There were two
big opportunities I had to participate in anti-war demonstrations that
spring.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The first was a big
demonstration to be held in Washington, DC.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>The activists had put up flyers around campus about the Washington march
indicating that UNC organizers were chartering buses to take students to DC to
participate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For $50.oo you got a bus
ride and chance to see the nation’s capital, which I had never done.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This was a great opportunity.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I went back to
the dorm, called Dad and asked if he could put $50.oo into my account.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I explained I had an opportunity to take a
bus excursion to Washington DC and see the sights.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He thought for that price this sounded like a
great opportunity to learn about the nation’s capital.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He told me he would get the money together
and let me know when it was in my account.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I not sure how
but he found out this was a trip to Washington to demonstrate against the
war.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When he called me back he didn’t
need to use the phone because he was yelling so loud I could have heard him all
the way from Aurora.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He proceeded to let
me know that if I went on that trip he would pull me out of school so fast I
would not know what hit me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Needless to
say I did not get the money nor did I get to go to Washington.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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participate in a large demonstration held on the campus.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>On that particular day my friends and I were
out sunning in the quad when we heard and saw a large crowd of people marching
by on Raleigh Street. We decided this looked like fun and followed the group,
after we grabbed a couple of bottles of Strawberry Hill.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We marched up Raleigh Street, then down
Franklin Street and back south on Columbia St. During the entire trip and later
as we assembled on the quad in front of South Building there was a constant
chant of “1, 2, 3, 4 we don’t want your F---ing War.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">After the march
and while everyone was standing in front of South Building one speaker after
another got up in front of the crowd and ranted about the war.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The true activists stood in front and cheered
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">To the rest of
us it was just another party.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It wasn't
long before this cloud of “funny” smelling smoke began to fill the air and the
party began.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As for me and my friends
out came the Boones Farm and we joined in.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">As you have
probably figured out Boones Farm played an integral part in making each of
these events a memorable college experience.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><o:p> </o:p></span><br />
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growing up in Aurora NC.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I found out today one of my oldest friends died. Henry
(Hank) B. Bland was born on July 25, 1953 and died on November 27, 2012 after
battling cancer and several other illnesses throughout his life.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Hank was possibly my oldest friend. I cannot remember a time
we were not friends growing up in Edward, NC. In some of the pictures I have of
us together we were only 3 years old.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Most of our early years were spent living across the street
from each other and we spent many hours at the others home. The Bland home in
Edward was one of the first places I where I was allowed to go alone. We spent
most days playing together and exploring our world.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">We had our own little gang which included Hank, Billy, Al
and I. Edward was a very small town and we were it. We played together, went to
church together, and rode the bus to school together. We had lots of adventures
together.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">One of those adventures occurred after church one night. As
I said Edward is a very small town with only a couple of streets. We lived on
the main street through town and the church was on the back street. Between our
house and the church was a small wooded area with a path through it maybe a 100
yards long. I remember going to church with my friends, Al, Hank and Billy and
one of them suggesting that we walk home through the path in the woods. It was
like a badge of courage we were each trying to earn and this would be the first
time we attempted it. I am not sure about the other guys but that 100 yard walk
was on the longest walks I have ever taken. That should have been a short
distance, but it seemed to go on forever. The woods were darker than on any
moonless night. It was quite, not even the wind was blowing. After walking for
what seemed like hours without saying a word between us, we finally made it to
the other end near Al’s house. It was like the moon come out and the stars were
shinning and we started laughing and teasing one another. From that night on we
always took the short cut through the woods, I guess we earned our badge.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">At first my friends and I only played at each other’s
houses, but as we got older and braver we ventured out into the area. Behind
Hank’s house was an old abandoned barn. This soon became our clubhouse and our
base of operations from which we explored deeper and deeper into the
woods.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Finally around age 1o or 11 we
began exploring the creek and for the next couple of years Hank and I had many
great adventures along the banks of Durham Creek.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Hank and I started school together in the fall of 1959 at
Aurora High School and for the next 12 years we went to the same school
building. I remember how it was so great riding the school bus with the big
kids and we felt grown up. We were lucky that there were a couple of “High
School” girls who kept an eye on us. Thanks Miriam and Deanna, Hank’s sister. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">One Christmas day Hank’s sister Deanna took us to the movies
in Washington at the Turnage Theater. The movie Swiss Family Robinson had just
come out and we got to see it that first week.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Hank was part of the group that went with me to be on the
Romper Room TV show in Greenville, NC on WNCT. We both worked hard back then to
be good Do Bees.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">After high school I got married and moved to Florida and
only saw Hank a few times. He came to Florida for a visit once and we talked
for a long while about old times. On several occasions I saw Hank when I went
back to North Carolina for a visit, but these times became rarer and rarer.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Even though we had grown apart, separated by time and
distance, it is hard to lose an old friend of almost 60 years. I will miss Hank
and the world has changed now that he is gone. I know he suffered many
illnesses in his adult life but I also can rest assured he is resting
peacefully now in the arms of God.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">A joy I have today thinking about Hank is all the great
times and memories we had together. He was and still is a great friend.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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An old posting but a good one.<br />
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We tried so hard to make things better for our kids that we made them worse.<br />
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For my grandchildren, I'd like better.<br />
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I'd really like for them to know about hand me down clothes and homemade ice cream and leftover meat loaf sandwiches, I really would.<br />
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I hope you learn humility by being humiliated, and that you learn honesty<br />
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I hope you learn to make your own bed and mow the lawn, and wash the car. And I really hope nobody gives you a brand new car when you are sixteen.<br />
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It will be good if at least one time you can see puppies born and your old dog put to sleep.<br />
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I hope you get a black eye fighting for something you believe in.<br />
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I hope you have to share a bedroom with your younger brother. And it's all right if you have to draw a line down the middle of the room, but when he wants to crawl under the covers with you because he's scared, I hope you let him.<br />
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When you want to see a movie and your little brother wants to tag along, I hope you'll let him.<br />
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I hope you have to walk uphill to school with your friends and that you live in a town where you can do it safely.<br />
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On rainy days when you have to catch a ride, I hope you don't ask your driver to drop you two blocks away so you won't be seen riding with someone as uncool as your Mom.<br />
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If you want a slingshot, I hope your Dad teaches you how to make one instead of buying one.<br />
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I hope you learn to dig in the dirt and read books.<br />
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When you learn to use computers, I hope you also learn to add and subtract in your head.<br />
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I hope you get teased by your friends when you have your first crush on a girl, and when you talk back to your mother that you learn what ivory soap tastes like.<br />
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May you skin your knee climbing a mountain, burn your hand on a stove and stick your tongue on a frozen flagpole.<br />
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I don't care if you try a beer once, but I hope you don't like it.<br />
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And if a friend offers you dope or a joint, I hope you realize he is not your friend.<br />
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I sure hope you make time to sit on a porch with your Grandpa and go fishing with your Uncle.<br />
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May you feel sorrow at a funeral and joy during the holidays.<br />
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I hope your mother punishes you when you throw a baseball through your neighbor's window and that she hugs you and kisses you at Christmas time when you give her a plaster mold of your hand.<br />
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These things I wish for you -- tough times and disappointment, hard work and happiness.<br />
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To me, it's the only way to appreciate life.<br />
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Written with a pen. Sealed with a kiss. I'm here for you. And if I die before you do, I'll go to heaven and wait for you.<br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">In today's business
environment teams, groups and committees are all the rage of the modern
corporate structure. It is all about empowerment and flattening out the
hierarchy and with more acronyms describing how to do it than grains of sand in
an hour glass. Every year new gurus come out with their programs, which are
just warmed over last year’s programs, but with a few new letters put together
to make the latest and greatest acronym ever. Yet, sometimes you have to step
back and remember past advice and apply it today.<br />
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When I thought of myself as a young corporate ladder climber and the team
concept of management was just starting I had a manager who gave me two pieces
of advice on how to implement these practices.<br />
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1. “A committee of 3 gets more done when 2 people are absent.” <br />
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2. “You don't call a committee to kill a rattlesnake, just kill it.”<br />
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In our daily business lives there are times we just need to make a decision.
Not stand around and wait for others and see which way the wind is blowing.
There comes a time when we need a decision maker who can step up and is not
afraid to make decisive decisions. True leaders in business are becoming a
rarity. I believe this is in part due to the way we are teaching our young
people that everyone is equal and everyone deserves a trophy even if they lose.
Leaders lead and should be recognized as such.<br />
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In the end we are the only ones responsible for our success or failure and as
leaders it is time for us to step up and lead in our area of expertise.<br />
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Make it Happen Today! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br />Larry B. Grayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04891023045117835261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8586039420181458273.post-54970898948946863442012-09-19T11:53:00.000-04:002012-09-19T11:53:04.645-04:00Not Politically Correct
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif";">The
other day I had to prepare a short talk to give at a meeting. It wasn't that
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Many moons ago when I was taking Agriculture 1 as a freshman at Aurora High
School in Aurora NC we had a short chapter on public speaking. Our teacher,
Finnly Lewis, gave this simple rule which has stuck with me and guided me in
every speech I have made:<br />
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"A speech should be like a woman's dress, long enough to cover the
subject, but short enough to keep the interest." <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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